Goldy Number 5

writer. thinker. doer. whoer?

http://dontmarrycareerwomen.wordpress.com/

I love backwards circa 1950 chauvinist posts like this that get it totally wrong. 

The problem isn’t career women. The problem is the expectation that career women should do and be everything…as long as we have dinner on the table by 7 PM.

I think people aren’t always honest with themselves. They marry because they feel pressure to. Because they want kids but the window of opportunity is small. They want the wedding but not the person they’re with.

I challenge any person who is anti gender-equality to answer these questions:

When was the last time you learned something useful at home or work? Tried something new? Challenged yourself to be a better person? A better partner?

Here’s a thought: Sign up for a marathon, read an interesting book, continue to develop skills and interests that will keep you motivated, and interesting, to your partner…do anything that fulfills you so that you won’t be left feeling unsatisfied or emasculated by your sig other’s successes.

It seems to me that it isn’t finding a successful career that ruins a marriage. It’s choosing the wrong partner that does.

nanlawson:

Eleven

This artist— killing it.

nanlawson:

Eleven

This artist— killing it.

Birth Chart Reading

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Within the delicate folds of “yes” and “no”
Something certain
Hides
A diligent thing
Unknown
To love them forever
It’s destined
However
Venus in Aries
Square- Jupiter
Trine - Uranus
They’re saying this—
Pluto in Scorpio
1984
Fixed, loyal
Except
The North node resides
In Gemini
Need for freedom—
High
South Node Aries
Reflex to survive
Through senses
Intellect
The Arts
Internal struggles
The Needs versus Wants
Social
Urban
Curious
Burgeoning
And the Money
For which Taurus is
Hungry

With my love at a delicious dinna in Vegooose

With my love at a delicious dinna in Vegooose

My mama’s parents and first 4 of 14 kids.